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LATEST POSTSthe legal system in IL Posted by military man! on May 18th, 2012 @ 5:06pm in Illinois Well, my story is like every other story; started with BLIND love and it ended with CLEAR hate. I got divorce in October 2011, typical case she got my only son I got the debt, destroyed credit, stolen furniture etc. She was awarded my sole possession of our house including the mortgage and bills. However she had the idea of having the house to go in foreclosure so that way she will get my son and I will get shit. Little that did she know, because I am in the military and under federal law, the service member relief act protect us from losing our homes while serving on active duty (among other benefits), she stopped paying the mortgage for six months! this of course destroyed my credit (servicemember civil relief act does not protect us from creditors hinting our report and lowering our score). Fast forward to the October 2011, she got my son and I got the house, debt and my "freedom". I was given 5 months to remove her name from the loan via Quit Claim Deed. But her attorney, my attorney and her played me for six months, each one of them claiming that they had handed out the QCD to the other. So, I asked to my Captain Judge Advocate General for help, he told me what to say to my vulture attorney and presto, I got it! (six months later) but I got it. Now I hope you can see what is coming...right after my divorce was final, I paid the mortgage that was behind, catching up with my obligations; ever since my mortgage is back where it was before my divorce begun ON TIME. So I have not assumed the loan because only 2 weeks ago I received the QCD. So this dumb female dog is now suing me because her name is still on the loan. This stupid idiot does not see that thanks to that, better said, thanks to me her credit is now fine again because the creditors don't care who is sending the money, their only concern is to receive the money and they will report to the credit bureaus if they got their money or not and if was it on time or not. They report whoever name is in the loan papers. Fuck I am so sadden to see that this shell of humanity wants to spend tens of thousands more instead of saving that money for our son's future!! But the court system has been designed to fuck men under the flag of protecting "weak" women. most of these women are destroying millions of men with the help a a broken legal system, sequestering our children, destroying us financially with the backup of child support agencies and their anti-constitutional laws. Incarcerating hundreds of thousands of men! Think about it next time you sing the phrase "the land of the free and the home of the brave" [What are your thoughts?] COMMENTS: 1 WISH YOU COULD HAVE BEEN THERE......NO, PROBABLY NOT Posted by DESPERATE DAN on May 5th, 2012 @ 11:42pm in MONTANA My wife started pulling away from me in late 2008 and into early 2009. It was subtle at first.....when she began spending alot of time away, buying new clothes, tanning and getting a tatoo and wearing black dresses to shop in: I knew something was up. So I began setting up survelliance on the computer and audio systems. It wasn't long and I found what I was looking for......I should have know better....having not had sex in over 6 moths........and all the changes. She had had an affair with a guy from out church while I was gone to a school for 9 weeks...she couldn't stop, event though I confronted her on it and asked blatantly. After the first one, I stumbled upon the next one; this one was infaticallyd denied as well. After 3.5 years, I'm finely divorced from this THUNDERC_ _NT and am ready to move one. The outside might be all sugar and spice, but it's the big, bad black hole you need to be congnizant of....because they all have one....it's how much of that hole are you willing to dwell into and manage. I loved my wife the first time I saw here...........was crazy about her until I found out the truth. Some of you may be say "Well if that was the case and he was doing what he was supposed to be doing....why did she leave?" That's a great question: My answer is, yes, I was doing what I was supposed to be doing - with imperfections, but she got better than most. After 2.8 years of counseling and intropsection and review and I can honestly tell you that I am only willing to accept 7% of the failure. Yes, I made mistakes; but I never disrespected her or my marriage....yet, that's just not enough to fill that big black hole.....so ladies, figure out your issues and fill that big black hole you see when you look in the mirror. That will help you find the person you're looking for......not tanning, working out, buying clothes or pretending. Real, honest people that accept their faults, ALL their faults is much sexier than someone that is a big vat of lies, deceit and hate. There are alot more of them than the good ones! I know [What are your thoughts?] COMMENTS: 0 The Menopause Posted by Gary Plaid on May 5th, 2012 @ 1:26pm in Aberdeen I am 52 and a recently separated guy of 23years married (with a 3 year engagement) and two teenage kids. Whilst our marraige was more like brother and sister, at least I thought the was respect. Clearly not. Last August I came home late from work to find my neighbour (let's call him Jim) and my wife drinking wine. Being full of the cold and tired, I had a bath and went to bed. I was woken by the phone at 0030hrs and went through to find them drinking my whiskey! It obviously kicked off. "you can't tell me what men to talk to" and "I'm 45 you know" wher the fcuk did that come from? I left the house during the 3rd week of December a broken and very, very angry man. I dont think there is another guy but, 'this is the event our marraige needed' according to my wife (let's call her Jane) She became 'dry' uninterested and unadventurous in sex (about two years ago) She slept on a towel to soak up her night sweats. She was irrational (made worse by the fact that she is an alpha female) angry, tearful, closed minded and money oriented. Clearly perimenstrual... My friends, to make it worse she fcuking denied it! I am still (9 months into separation) absolutely raging. I gave my blood,time and commitment to this heartless bitch. She now lives on the farm and owns our business. I got 35% of the value of our assets, live in a flat, have no pension see the kids once a week. To make matters worse, she bought a new range rover, has booked 4 holidays abroad this year (she spent £1100.00 on a ski suit!). I live not too far away from her due to the kds and my business. I am reminded almost daily of her 'adventures in singledom' I have read that she is a changed women with the onset of the menopause. That I agree with! Raging, utterly raging and toothless, that's how I feel. Beware the menopause guys.... [What are your thoughts?] COMMENTS: 0 I was so angry and lost until.... Posted by Martin on April 3rd, 2012 @ 1:25pm Hi guys. I'm 6 months out from leaving the family home on the demand of my STBXW. I was waking with cramps and thought it might be PTSD ( I'm ex army) my doctor suggested a specialist and I have seen him 6 times. The results have been nothing short of amazing! He spends an hour with me each time and in that hour I am hypnotised for 20 minutes. After 2 sessions I was told (and you must google this please!) that she is 'passive aggressive' He said " I know jxxxxx as well as you do, I just haven't met her" 20 odd years of 2nd fiddle/sperm donor/bank roller and I didn't suss it! I left our home just before Christmas and our lawyers had agreed a payout by January 16th. Remarkable control on her part. I am still very angry with her (we had a family holiday in the Maldives in July) and our date of separation is the 12th of August. When I questioned her about the great level of intimacy we had on holiday she said " well, it was a test and you failed" Unbelievably hard nosed.. Moral of the story? Get out of the relationship rapid. Dump the crazy, menopausal, controlling bitch and see a psychoanalyst. I'm perceived to be an alpha male and seeing a shrink was a really big leap of faith. I thank God I did and would recommend you do too. Good luck [What are your thoughts?] COMMENTS: 1 Lies Posted by Izaya on April 2nd, 2012 @ 8:28pm My Ex tried to convince me that she was not only an informant, but; She tried to convince me that she was the head of the mafia, an assassin, a romanian orphan, born in russia, lived in ikebukuro, was going to school 12 hours a day for different college courses every day (a freshman in high school, we're both sophomores now. Thank god she lives far away), was inhumanly strong, spoke several languages, one of which i speak and she was baffled when i spoke to her a fluent paragraph. She responded to tell me "I don't know what language that was." when i told her, i told her that she said to me she could read write and speak it, why could she not tell me what i said. She also, was extremely controlling. She didn't want me to go to a thing with a bunch of my friends that had been planned for months because i guess i was supposed to be spending ALL of my free time with her. She accused me of cheating for spending time with my best friend *who i am now with and beyond happy with* When i broke up with her she tried over and over to convince me not to leave her, even going as far as to claim he knew about a relationship i had shortly after leaving her before it had even happened. That one ended and led very quickly to my current one. She still tries to get me to spend time with her, when she clearly knows that i hate her. She told me last time i told her now "I love you still, so much. I'm extremely suicidal from all of this" and i told her--- "it's really your own fault for treating me like some toy for you to play with, instead of a lover." i have not spoken to her since, i have no desire. [What are your thoughts?] COMMENTS: 0 |
She wore the pants......now you can wear the shirt 
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